A headline in yesterday’s news reads “Ogden man gets up to 5 years for burrito theft”. I’m sure many people read the story and thought well this guy is a habitual offender, it’s time the justice system threw the book at him. As humans we instinctively judge people we don’t know based on “facts” that may or may not be represented accurately or completely by the media. I have a personal experience to add to this particular story. If I were to title my headline it would read “Self proclaimed Christian turns hungry man away, calling him a ‘bum’”.
My ex-husband and I were in the Great Harvest Bread Co. on 25th Street in Ogden a few years ago getting breakfast. This same gentleman in the headlines ducked his head in the door and asked the young man helping us if he could have a slice of bread. The young man replied “they’re fifty cents”, the homeless man politely said “ok” and was on his way. I immediately kicked myself out loud for not being faster so I could buy the hungry man some food. The young worker replied “that’s ok, he’s just a bum”, then went on to tell us how excited he was about his upcoming church mission. My ex and I had quite a discussion after that about how misinformed this young man was about the gospel he was so excited to be preaching. Whether the young man was just following store policy on a street known for homeless loitering is not the issue. What offended me was a fellow Christian saying someone is sub-human and doesn’t deserve kindness. I have remembered that event every time someone needs assistance that requires a quick reaction on my part. I never want to regret again that I could’ve helped someone but didn’t grab the opportunity.
I was driving to work early one morning recently and spotted a young female pulled off to the side of the road with her hazard lights flashing. I immediately thought “I wish I could help her but I don’t know how”, then I thought “call Highway Patrol”. My next thought was “no don’t interfere”. I pondered for about five seconds and pulled out my phone and reported it to UHP. That lady will never know that another single female called in on her behalf out of concern, but I empathized with her and assumed she was probably stressed and maybe wasn’t thinking clearly. Knowing someone cares about you in times of crisis is sometimes all that is needed to bring back peace, focus, and a resolve to keep going. When I am the recipient of an act of service I am reminded that God is watching out for me and sending people my way to bring me His blessings.
Are you one of the people God will entrust to carry out His work? It is easy to fall into a habit of only performing service when it is asked of us by our church, our family, or another organization. Developing that natural instinct to seek opportunities to serve takes time and effort on our parts. God will test you by sending you smaller tasks like calling Highway Patrol or buying a man some food, and if you prove yourself worthy you will start receiving more and more impressions to help others, both in big and small ways. The true test is once you start receiving the impressions on a regular basis will you obey them? It sounds daunting, but really it is the true joy of the Lord to feel His love for others and be able to carry it out on His behalf. Doing so not only increases our love for our fellow humans but for God as well.
Am I perfect about following through on all the impressions I receive? Not hardly, but I am more aware of them the more I come to have a personal relationship with Jesus. One thing that has helped me be more observant of service opportunities is to specifically thank God in my prayers for the acts of kindness I received that day and ask Him to bless the individuals who provided the service. This can prepare us to be His servants because we recognize how much He relies on us as humans to help each other and we begin developing a desire to pass along the service we have received.
Colossians 3:23-25 states, “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as a reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality.” A kind deed to a hungry man might have kept him from serving a prison sentence for stealing two burritos…or not, who knows? Ours is not to judge the outcome, but to act based on the present circumstances. Often we are prompted with a feeling of compassion toward someone in need and immediately start rationalizing why we shouldn’t help them because they are probably going to use the money for drugs, or they should get a job, or why can’t they take care of their own family, or we shouldn’t interfere, or any of the other quick judgments that can be made. That initial feeling of compassion is God’s love for that person being sent to your heart. The judgments that follow do not come from God. It is up to us to decide which to heed. Of course there will be times when it is impossible to act but if we are doing our best I think that’s all that is required.
As a side note, my ex returned to Great Harvest a few months later and asked how the young man’s mission was going and was informed by another employee that he had returned home after serving only a couple months of his two year mission. We didn’t want to judge the young man but wondered if perhaps his spiritual maturity level had something to do with his decision. When you are mature in your own knowledge of the gospel, it is so much easier to reserve judgment of others and to show them the same type of love and compassion Christ Himself would’ve given while he was here on earth. As Christ said, “If you love me, feed my sheep.” Do your thoughts and actions towards others demonstrate your love for God?
Food for thought.